Women not included in technology?  Is it a gender thing or a techy vs. non-techy thing?

My thinking is that by default it is a woman-thing.  Only 10% of women are technical so by default it is a gender thing.

Let's stop apolgizing and start doing.  

Where can we learn:
* webmonkey.com
* any php tutorial you find interesting on the web
* learn css
* take a class at a community college
* find an opensource project, hack it, show it to others

I went to Mills College.